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Sat Jan 30, 2010, 1:07 PM
Well, it is a sad thing to report, but my once good friend XyraXerus has left dA. :devart:

Yesterday, I stood there in Heathrow and said goodbye, forcing myself to wave her off, as she began a new chapter in Vancouver, leaving the ashes, of all that England held in the distance. I understand her reasons, but I wish she did not have to cut ties. I thought friendship meant more, but what can you say?

I did what I had to do and would never be able to live with myself, if I had not taken that step. You see, she discovered last week that her be-all-and-end-all boyfriend, Scott had been cheating on her for roughly three months. He was having an affair with an attractive underling at the restaurant where he works as a chef. :katana:

As awful as this was, I cannot say it was much of a surprise or shock. I never liked him or trusted him, but hell, you are friends with the primary person not necessarily their significant other right?

Then she discovered that people around her had suspected for a while that he was cheating or at least thinking about it. People she trusted.

I never knew for sure, just suspected and I did tell her of those suspicions! I feel somewhat relieved that she finally sees the truth, but also a bit deflated about the fact that, I had told her, I thought he was straying two weeks before she left for Toronto on an assignment. She refused to listen, so blames me for ruining her perfect bubble!

I left Cambridge after that row, planning never to grace her doorstep again, yet now the scandal had revealed itself, I wondered if we could bury the hatchet. Alas, no joy there. Chiara has decided she wants to cut ties with the unnecessary people in her life, and apparently I am one of them. :confused:

If I had remained quiet about my suspicions, seeing him with the girl not once but four times, the last being the poignant episode, then maybe I could have kept my friendship but it would have been based on a lie.

I mean, you see a mate of yours or a the significant other of a mate, talking to a member of the opposite sex, you cannot immediately assume that they are having an affair, but following her three times into her house in the middle of the day was a bit strange! Saying you were working a double shift in the afternoon, and then inventing stories of your day, when two witnesses saw you enter the house with her, was odd to say the least! :wtf:

I cannot reconcile not wanting to hear the truth. A boy cheated on me once and I never doubted that it had occurred, when my friend Kooma told me, he had seen him with another girl. It was over before it began, after I knew.


Would you in the same situation, tell a mate that she/he was being cheated on? Regardless of the potential flames or tears?

  • Mood: Content
  • Listening to: Timbaland ft. Daughtry - A Long Way Down
  • Drinking: Hot Chocolate

Tagged

Sun Jan 24, 2010, 7:50 AM
I was tagged by my new mate on dA, :iconzombiehumper:

The Rules

1. Post these rules.
2. Each tagged person must post 10 things about themselves on their journal.
3. At the end, you have to choose and tag 10 people and post their icons on the same journal.
4. Go to their pages and send a message saying you tagged them.
5. No tag-backs.
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Wow. I have no idea what to write! What do you admit about yourself? :omg:

Okay here goes...

1. I love watching crime dramas, from every country, as long as they have subtitles. :)

2. My first wedding experience, turned into a brawl that rivaled WWE Smackdown. :disbelief:

3. Going to Mexico was the best and worst decision of my life. :nod:

4. I have never liked my name.

5. Giving up coffee last year was a painful experience!

6. Teddy bears give me the creeps! I have no idea why! :)

7. People who cannot accept change or continually procrastinate, get on my nerves.

8. My Beau never stops visiting my house. (Who I have yet to stop calling Beau!)

9. I love nature but can never tell a Sweetpea from a Petunia!

10. I am tee-total, except for a shot of Baileys at Christmas! :)

:) The unfortunate people I randomly tagged are,


:iconartsangel: :icontommontgomery: :icontegehel: :iconfallingdark: :icondev-matus:

:iconrainerbrunotte: :iconmantrastic: :iconviag: :iconurielx1x: :iconangelusconna:

Take care!

Zyanya.

  • Mood: Content
  • Listening to: Breaking Benjamin- I Will Not Bow
  • Reading: A email saying my driving license expires in 3041
  • Drinking: Not Sure.

A Really Belated New Year's!

Sat Jan 2, 2010, 2:46 AM
:iconeufrosis: HAPPY NEW YEAR! :iconeufrosis:

I had planned to upload a New Year journal yesterday, but with all that happened, including taking a mate of mine to the hospital with a concussion, I never made it to the Internet! So,

I Wish Everyone The Absolute Best for 2010!

Take care & Keep up the incredible work!

With a Special :blowkiss: to my Amazing Watchers and all the wonderful people, I have recently met on dA!

Have a fantastic day!

Yours,


~Paddington-Owl

Sparkle! You are fantastic!

  • Mood: Cheerful
  • Listening to: Lady Gaga - So Happy I Could Die
  • Reading: My emails, my report & current assignments.
  • Watching: My colleague being an chauvinistic idiot.
  • Eating: Polos
  • Drinking: Peach flavoured water.

Holiday Greetings!

Tue Dec 22, 2009, 7:25 AM
:santa: With enormous respect to all religions and beliefs across dA, :santa:


:iconx-masplz: MERRY CHRISTMAS! :iconx-masplz:



:iconpinksantaplz: Have a fantastic time and Take care everyone! :iconpinksantaplz:




:iconi-c-e-blue: WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST FOR THE COMING YEAR! :iconi-c-e-blue:


~Paddington-Owl

:iconeufrosis: :iconeufrosis: :iconeufrosis: :iconeufrosis: :iconeufrosis: :iconeufrosis: :iconeufrosis: :iconeufrosis: :iconeufrosis:

  • Mood: Joy
  • Listening to: Citizen Soldier by 3 Doors Down
  • Reading: Writing my E-Cards
  • Watching: Cat prodding Christmas tree! (Someone scream!)
  • Eating: Raspberry Lollipop
  • Drinking: Blackcurrant 7-UP

Contest Winners!

Mon Dec 7, 2009, 12:13 PM
My fantastic mate ~watsup223 had announced the winners of his terrific contest!

Mixed media Contest; Winners are here: [link]

Every entry was spectacular, but the winners are as follows!

:star: Age Group under 14:

:bulletred: 1st Place

:iconinsan echibiraver: :devinsanec hibiraver: with: [link]

:bulletred: 2nd Place:

:iconxxfo b-luvxx: :devxxfob-l uvxx: with: [link]

:bulletred: 3rd Place:

:iconsu mmer132: :devsu mmer132: with: [link]

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:star: Age Group 15-25:

Photomanipulation:

:bulletred: 1st Place:

:iconhel lcloister::devhel lcloister: with: [link]

:bulletred: 2nd Place:

:iconw isting: :devw isting: with: [link]

:bulletred: 3rd Place:

:iconkai zankaizan: :devkai zankaizan: with: [link]

Photography:

:bulletred: 1st Place:

:iconma ggie113: :devmagg ie113: with: [link]

:bulletred: 2nd Place:

:iconje mmax3: :devj emmax3: with: [link]

:bulletred: 3rd Place:

:iconforthe unseeneyes: :devforth eunseeneyes: with: [link]

:bulletblue: Special mention:

:devmk-photo passion: [link]

Traditional art:

:bulletred: 1st Place:

:icons auloc22: :devsau loc22: with: [link]

:bulletred: 2nd Place:

:iconth ilil: :devt hilil: with: [link]

:bulletred: 3rd Place:

:star: Agegroup under 14:

:bulletred: 1st Place:

:iconinsan echibiraver: :devinsanec hibiraver: with: [link]

:bulletred: 2nd Place:

:iconxxfo b-luvxx: :devxxfob-l uvxx: with: [link]

:bulletred: 3rd Place:

:iconsu mmer132: :devsu mmer132: with: [link]

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:star: Age Group 15-25:

Photomanipulation:

:bulletred: 1st Place:

:iconhel lcloister: :devhel lcloister: with: [link]

:bulletred: 2nd Place:

:iconw isting: :devw isting: with: [link]

:bulletred: 3rd Place:

:iconkai zankaizan: :devkai zankaizan: with: [link]

Photography:

:bulletred: 1st Place:

:iconma ggie113: :devmagg ie113: with: [link]

:bulletred: 2nd Place:

:iconje mmax3: :devj emmax3: with: [link]

:bulletred: 3rd Place:

:iconforthe unseeneyes: :devforth eunseeneyes: with: [link]

:bulletblue: Special mention:

:devmk-photo passion: [link]

:bulletgreen::bulletgreen: Traditional art:

:bulletred: 1st Place:

:icons auloc22: :devsau loc22: with: [link]

:bulletred: 2nd Place:

:iconth ilil: :devt hilil: with: [link]

:bulletred: 3rd Place:

:iconalc hybear: :devalc hybear: with: [link]

:bulletblue: Special mention:

:devmr-du mmy: [link]

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:star: Age Group over 26:

:bulletred: 1st Place:

:iconbro kentrinket: :devbroken trinket: with: [link]

:bulletred: 2nd Place:

:iconjaso njcane: :devjaso njcane: with: [link]

:bulletred: 3rd Place:

:iconshytwee dabone: :devshytwee dabone: with: [link]

:bulletblue: Special mention:

:devspark y650: [link]

Thank you and please check out their amazing work! :heart:

  • Mood: Joy
  • Listening to: Memories by David Guetta feat, Kid Cudi
  • Reading: Emails
  • Watching: My Beau cooking!
  • Eating: Polo Mints

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